Tuesday, March 3, 2009

Guarding Your Heart

Guarding your heart is a concept many people do not really understand, and at many times, tend to forget. Your heart is where all your emotions are stored up, where you can feel butterflies everytime you see your special person, to feeling like the whole world is on your shoulders. Your heart is precious and you only have one. When you find your true love you are supposed to give your heart to that person. But what kind of heart are you going to give them? A pure, clean heart that has waited only for them? A heart that has been bruised but still has the potential to love fully? Or a heart that is black and torn apart by different lovers? I admit that I gave my heart away freely. I let others use it, abuse it, and take it for themselves. I thought I was giving my heart to someone who would care for it, someone who would love it as their own, but I was wrong. Even though I knew I was wrong I still let this person hold my heart. Why? Because I wanted someone to hold it, anyone, and have hope that one day they'll treat it better. But this false hope was nothing but a foolish visad.

Guard your heart. Be careful who you give it to. Make sure God says it's ok to give it to that person. Instead of having other people tear away at your heart, making you feel like you're worth nothing to them, and that your heart is worth nothing to them, guard it. Save it for someone you know will treat it nicely. Someone who will love your heart more than their own. Someone you know that your heart will be happy with and will grow with.

Be careful. Don't let the weakness of loneliness drive you to give your heart to someone just so someone else can hold it. Be strong. Know that your heart is patient, it's you who isn't.

Remember. If you need to give your heart to someone, give it to God. He'll take good care of it until He approves of you giving it to someone else.

Take care everyone. God Bless

3 comments:

  1. Regret not hanging out with your bros last night.

    When you place brotherhood over girls, you'll find yourself escaping the loneliness. This is a very good thing.

    Now that I'm married, the one thing I do miss is the brotherhood. Yah, i'm good with you guys but I don't have the flexibility and freedom to go out whenever I want. You guys have this freedom. I'm not complaining as I do love thinking about and doing things for my wife, but it's a double-edge sword.

    Enjoy single life. It will cause you to grow to be Mr. Right for Mrs. Right.

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